Calling all of you blog readers!!

S. and I are starting to get more serious about purchases for a baby. I managed to get him to okay our first clothing purchase - just a couple of organic onesies that I couldn't resist - only a couple weeks ago.

That leads me to our little conundrum - what necessary items do we need?

Last year I bought this super cute organic bedding set thinking I'd have a crib.
S. and I decided there's no reason to have a crib because we're going to have a co-sleeper bassinet and baby will be sleeping with or near us in our room.

I am also debating the need for a stroller because we will be wearing our baby.

So crunchy mamas, please help us figure out what's a need vs. cute but not useful?